LADIES! Listen up, I will give it to you straight up here. If a man/or your man is always busy, too busy for you, then something is going on there. A man who truly cares about you will always/somehow make time for you. Love is an emotion that cannot be hidden or put aside. A man who truly loves you will make time for you at all times.
Even if he’s been sent to the moon to work for weeks or months, a man who cares will find a way to contact you from the moon, well not literally but you get the gist. In saying that, some men do truly get busy. BUT…..no matter how busy, he will text, call, send someone, something to let you know he’s missing or thinking about you.
If you haven’t read my e-book “Don’t get your self-esteem from a man” then click on it, and get reading. Its a continuous e-book and I just recently completed a quarter of it. If you have questions, ask me, I’d give you a straight-up beneficial advice.
Moving on..a man who truly cares about you cannot go a day or even hours without thinking of you, and you know what you do when you think of someone? You try to reach out to them. Its not something you can hide or put aside. Way back, I used to give some excuses like…”maybe he’s truly busy” or “maybe he likes me so much that he’s shy to always reach out” hahaha, now looking back at those excuses, it seemed perfect coming from someone who wasn’t prepared to face reality.
I know many of you girls love making excuses for him as well. Like “Oh, he’ll call, he’s just busy” or “His phone might have died/charging/lost?” Or “he forgot to call?” How about that one?
Ok to the main point. The simple and best way to deal with such situation is to simply GET BUSY too! At least if he’s busy, you can also be busy. Truth be told, men are usually bored when they realise a girl/woman is too hung up on them. Men are the chasers, that’s how they are created. They love challenge, even tough challenges. That’s why you see many men hung up on tough women who wouldn’t give them a time of the day.
Im not saying ‘start playing hard to get’ No. You need to be yourself. But part of being yourself is also having a life apart from him/outside him. Get busy, with work, with hobbies, travel, girls night out/get together etc. As soon as you start doing things for yourself and with other people, you will start feeling much better about yourself, and your confidence level will go up.
And guess what attracts a man mostly? Confidence! Have you ever walked along the road and saw a couple who totally looked ‘OFF’ together. You wondered in your mind “what does he/she see in her/him?” I know I have done that before. What he/she saw in her/him was confidence, right attitude and more. Looks alone cannot keep a man. Even if it does, its only for a while. Confidence attitude and personality goes a long way in keeping a man for the long haul.
(NOTE: The girl in the image above didn’t need to cry. Seemed like she gave it all up for him. I mean, so what if he doesn’t reply her texts? She can always look for a better man who will.)
If you are low in confidence/self esteem, build/work on that first before you go chasing a man. Otherwise men will see through those weaknesses and use it to their advantage. Also you will be attracting the men who will take advantage of you.
Where was I? Ok so get busy, do stuffs and be happy on your own, learn to be happy on your own, its very important. Once he sees how busy, happy and carefree you have become, he will come running back to you. You won’t even have to say anything or do anything, he will sense it. Law of attraction?
If he doesn’t seem really into you, let him go. Believe this, someone better will come along. It may not be straighaway but that guy will come along. Don’t pine, cry or stress over a guy who probably doesn’t deserve you. You can do better. You are an amazing creature, a wonderfully made one at that!
Don’t chase men, let them chase you. They don’t have to chase you for long, but give them something to make them feel that you are worth it. When a man sees your worth, he sticks around. You can do it. Don’t forget, if he’s busy, get BUSY!